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 What i have been up to?

After finishing the big stuff in the early of October, work thing was getting more relax. Not so many things to do after 5 pm except taking care of the new baby (which I will tell in very soon).

So, when in D-1 Taufiq told us to come to his wedding party,  there was no reason to not go.

And, if you are eager to know how weddiing picture looks like nowadays, here is the picture... 


Yep... with face-shield and physical distanncing.
What is so good of pandemic wdding is the intimacy... but.... there is no more salam ganesssya thing or yel yel himpunan thing ( which i have been dreaming about since the first time i came to alumni wedding as performer with ukm )


So what is '4 out of 16' ? Yes, this is 4th slvr member's wedding, but unfortunately, it is my first chance to come (as the rest were held in smmrgg).

Another additional OOTD pictures? But i am sorry there was no OOTD picture this time, so these are the substitutes.


Gemes ga? HAHAHAHAHA

Jakarta, November 2020

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Akhirnya kembali menyusuri kota setelah 7 bulan berlalu. 
Akhirnya ke blook A lagi setelah terakhir kesini masih banyak perbaikan jalan.
Thanks to long weekend dan ketidak beraniaan ku untuk pulang ke smrg due to corona akhirnya setelah 1 hari di kos, 2 hari maen ke apart sasa tyas, hari ke 4.. city strolling time... yeaaayy

BLOOK A



BLOOK M

Thanks to MRT which made city strolling became soooo muchhh easier... ke toilet bersih gampang, nyari tempat solat gampang. I luv strolling in jaakseel LOL.






Btw, Akhirnya.... bertemu dengan toko cincin dessta yang legendaris buat para penikmat TNS HAHAHAHA.

Selesai 7000 langkah akhirnya kami istirahat di mall di blook M yang sepi tapi suprisingly cukup lengkap karena ada kokumi. LOL.


Yang perdana nge fotoin aku hari ini nih HAHAHAHA. Jangan kapok ya plis.


Tentu saja, apa arti city strolling di jekarta tanpa pergi ke mall. Maka kita cari mall yang g jauh dari akses MRT. Dan luckily.... brand di foto ini lagi diskon parahhh T.T T.T T.T



Lets meet at another city strolling episode...



 







 

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it has been a very long time for me to not make this such post.
So, bear with me :)

being an uber extremely extrovert person means that i mostly regain energy from my surroundings which push me unconsciously to (literally) bother most of my friends to just keep the contact or intentionally talk about things. I dunno whether at the end, my friends were annoyed and feeling desperate for me (even though i am always chill, happy, and free HAHAHA) or not, but one thing for sure, they must be sending me that one beautiful prayer......

Finally, he is "the no.1" who is becoming the answer of those my friends' prayers.

Yash, now, i am so assured that i just need that one person who is willingly get bothered by me, and that is enough :)

i wuff u guys.
and i wuff u too. 



*me in the past 10 years must not have even a glimpse of possibility of believing myself would ever write these words HAHAHAHAHAHA*

and for you, yes you, who i intentionally ask to read this message, i would say thank you. (and please dont ask 'for what' :))


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This might be my best birthday so far.  
Bukan tentang hadiah yang banyak, tapi tentang bagaimana 2020 membuat aku menyadari hal hal yang aku miliki adalah cukup.

Kuarter 4 2020 dan alhamdulillah orang tua ku dan uci sehat wal afiat :')
Kuarter 4 2020 dan hampir 1 tahun pindah tempat kerja, aku merasa baik dengan kerjaanku yang baru
Kuarter 4 2020 dan aku masih memiliki inneer circle yang bertahan





 

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How are you, bloggy? I hope you are well and safe.

Anyway,  i hope reading will be one habit that my future children have, because reading really give us both excitement and knowledge at the same time. During elementary and high school (up until know), i read so so so so many fiction books either from school library or book rental (no online book back then). Finally at college, i start to read non fiction books.

Reading non fiction books gives different thrill and excitement than those butterflies in your tummy when reading romance fiction novel.  This excitement mostly comes due to those "relatable moment" feeling. --"Relatabe moment" feeling adalah ketika kita merasa.. "Ih bener banget", "oh, iya juga ya", dan lain lainnya.-- And it also works with following lines from Men from mars, women from venus by J. Gray..


credit: Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. John Gray

When i came to think about what empower me the most, i could not find the proper term, until i find this line: feeling of cherished. 

This is so truu.

I Feel cherished.
When people do things to appreciate me, or
When people do things to support me, or
When people do things to get to know me, or
When people do things to love me

IMO, do things are equal with making an effort

And it turns out, that the book tell me the same. It shows us how Martiaans' effort (coming across the universe to meet Venusiaan) could motivate, empower and lift Venusiaans' depression. 

So, here's the thing: 
it is not a matter whether it is big or small, 
it is more simple, 
it is just about a presence or absence of the effort. 

Let say, in this context, one example of an effort is giving appreciation words.
No wonder, i feel so moved when people was saying to me that he/she was so thankful after seeing and talking to me. I feel so appreciated then i feel motivated to be a better person.

Before i read this book, i still think that giving appreciation words is one of the best way to motivate people and always be an uber big thing to most of people, but then i realized that i could not generalize this matter, because it turns out that --based on the book-- Martiaans may prefer or need other feeling: feel needed.

So, you guys martiaans, do you prefer to feel needed or to feel cherished too?
please comment below if you are martiaans :)

Anyway,  i was triggered to make this post because of Ibu ibu warung didepan kosanku.
Ibunya told me, how she was sorry and thankful to make me always listen to her story (beli jajan di warung jadi bisa se biru ini:")), she said it was because she doesnot have children so she tend to find people/buyer who can listen to her.
For me, what i did was just listening her story and giving little response, that simple. But, it turns out that, my little effort means something for her :"). My effort to listen to her motivates her, meanwhile her feedback to appreciate me also motivates me. 

Life is so nice.
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"Emang paling salah menaruh ekspektasi pada orang lain"

"Yang salah itu bukan ekspektasinya, yang salah adalah memilih menyerah untuk menyikapi kekecewaan dari ekspektasi yang tidak tercapai, instead of learn, grow, and take another action to fulfil an expectation"



 

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Biasanya sesuatu yang tidak direncanakan malah lebih sering terlaksana. Seperti kumpul kumpul hari itu. Warunkupnrmal teebet menjadi tempat pertama untuk aku pecah telur tempat kumpul2 kedua selain kantor (dan tempat nikah nail dan iwa) yang aku datangi setelah lock down dari bulan maret. Wow, 6 bulan berlalu. 6 bulan tanpa kumpul kumpul.

Jadi circle pertama yang dikunjungi adalah circle farmasi.

So, topiknya memang g akan jauh jauh dari:

1. Throwback masa masa kuliah

2. Sambat tentang kerjaan

3. Mengulik cerita tentang mantan

4. Dan masalah random lain (7 jam gilak)

Dan semua nya berakhir pada kesimpulan, dunia ini semakin sempit. Ga deng.. bercanda dong. Kita semakin lebar.

Dalam durasi kurleb 7 jam ada disana, aku jadi sadar tentang poin idealisme yang selama ini orang orang lama (re: orang yang udah lebih dulu kerja) rasakan menjadi sebuah issue. Ternyata mempertahankan idealisme kuliah memang sulit, apalagi bertabrakan dengan agility yang dituntut.

Idealisme in some way, dirasa bisa jadi obstacles seseorang buat jadi lebih fleksibel.

Ya.. bisa jadi sih, karena nyatanya 1 ditambah 1 hasilnya ternyata ga selalu 2.

Aku jadi bener bener berdoa, smoga kalau udah makin tua dan dapet tanggung jawab yang lebih gede, otakku ini masih bisa inget ingatan 5 tahun kemarin (yang sekarang aja udah hampir hilang). 

Selfie lagi, cus why not?

cr: mas yanto


cr: mas yanto

cr: mas yanto

cr: mas yanto

Anyway, ada sefruit inspirasi buat bloggy, siapa tau kamu mau pindahan...
Ada inspirasi dari Nia, ini nia yang ga pernah berubah dari dulu. nia yang paling cocok buat jadi bendahara, nia yang paling detail, nia yang anak TN (yang sangat ku banggakan).

Super amazed sama nia.
Dulu nia pernah cerita, dia masak tempe dan dia catet detail durasinya (dalam menit). Tujuannya apa? Jelas validasi proses. Jadi nanti kalo dapet tempe dengan tingkat kematangan tercocok, nia udah punya caranya.
*disclaimer: nia beli tempe konsisten di tempat yang sama dan jenis yang sama

Gilak kan? emang :)

Beberapa taun kemudian ketemu nia, nia abis pindahan. terus nia cerita, tentang catetan dan inventaris pindahannya. Lengkap dengan denah kosan dia yang baru beserta ukuran lubang ventilasi, tinggi gap antara lantai dan pintu, dan ukuran ukuran yang lain yang bergunaa untuk persiapan menata kamar baru.

Gilak kan? emang.:) Tapi aku bangga sama niaaaa.. Luv niaaaa....





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Disclaimer: Please bear all these shameless selfies of us.

Hai bloggy, kamu tau kan, kalau aku baru pindah ke kota di November 2019 dan lanjut di karantina 3 bulan, alhasil, setelah selesai itu semua, aku langsung kejar tayang dong untuk join the gang. HAHAHAHAHA.

Iya, ini gang ukm 13 cab jakarta.
Yang sejak 2018 udah ada,
Yang sejak 2018 udah masukin aku ke dalam grup WA padahal aku msh di ckrg
Yang sejak 2018 kerjaannya bikin aku miris liat orang kumpul kumpul tapi apa daya, usaha yang harus kulakukan terlalu besar jadi aku udah menyerah di awal. HAHAHAHA

Then 2 tahun kemudian, here i am. Hohohoho.

Oke, balik lagi, throwback ke bulan Februari 2020 dimana finalleh jadi anak jekardaah yang bisa ikut kemana mana tentu saja ikut ke (countless) meet up  ini. HAHAHAHA. No wonder sih, mungkin hampir 3 tahun kerjaannya ketemu sama mereka lagi mereka lagi (walopun aku levelnya cukup outsider, yaa apalah aku ini tim hore hore disana HAHAHA), jadi udah pindah kota pun rasanya ya butuh ketemu lagi.

It is supposed to be countless meet up, ga kebayang kalo ga ada korones ini mungkin saban bulan ketemu udah kayak forum di labtek 8 aja khaaan.
But, unfortunately, it is just "a supposed to be", secara aku cuma punya 1 bulan dan kemudian korones datang :))

@ cafe near benhil (i guess ?)- First stop (actually my 2nd stop, after GBK, spot the same outfit LOL)
Ini acara bagi bagi undangannya Bryan-Lenny the lovebirds.

Tentu saja, karena dulu standar durasi forum adalah 5 jam, apalah artinya ketemu sebentar doang di cafe ini. Sudah dapat dipastikan akan ada destinasi berikutnya, yang pada saat itu, belum ditentukan. 

Waktu ngetik ini aku baru sadar kenapa MBTI ku berubah dari judging ke perceiving HAHAHAHAHA

Pernah ga sih, denger orang bilang, 
"Kalau kamu maen sama temen SMA, kamu bakal balik lagi jadi anak SMA".
Dan emang itu bener.
Keluar dari cafe bener bener jalan jalan kaki, nyari halte TJ sembari kita masih berfikir mau kemana (aku inget banget, bcause i treasured the moment), bahkan karena belom tau mau kemana, Ajo sempet sempetnya beli sate padang (as if kita bakal balik cepet jadi bisa buat oleh oleh yang dirumah) yang hitss itu, dan tentu saja, aku tergoda. Oke buat makan malem, pikirku dalam hati.

    Jalan rame-rame di sepanjang benhil, berasa jalan di cisitu, lagi nganterin orang satu per satu ke         kos masing masing abis selesai latihan.

Benar aja kan, ga jadi balik dan perjalanan dilanjutkan ke kota tua.

@ Kota tua, with 1 portion of sate padang benhil for 5, and unknown gigs who sang 2000s hits

Please note that musola di deket kota tua kecil banget T.T.

Inget sate padang yang aku beli di benhil tadi, tentu aja kita cuma punya sate itu setelah perjalanan benhil-kota tua. Makan sate bareng bareng, sama sekali ga masalah, buat kita yang jaman kuliah, makan nasi padang (yes nasi padang) aja bisa ramean HAHAHAHA. Yang jadi masalah adalah sekarang, setelah dipikir pikir, bisa makan rame rame di tempat terbuka dan serame kota tua hampir mustahil :) I was lucky to have treasured it before HAHAHAHA.

Another surreal moment di malem itu goes to... studio outdoor a.k.a mobil merah di jalan masuk ke kota tua. Urat malu kalo sama mereka, memang auto menjadi fana :)

jangan ditanya malu nya kayak apa ya :) untung ukm cinta matiku

Lanjut ke malam minggu seminggu kemudian.

Dont blame my extrovert side, dimana ketika my comfort zone was asking to go out, i could not say no. HAHAHAHAHA

"Sev lagi dimana, yuk ke PI sekarang." (like LITERALLY now.. dan dalam 20 menit aku meluncur, emang pengangguran banget ya keliatannya HAHAHAHA)

@ PI . See! Please note the date on this picture, was exactly 7 days after the previous picture in kota tua,

Selesai makan? Tentu saja pantang pulang sebelum tengah malam (berasa dari kampus ke cisitu/tubagus ismail aja kan T.T) walaupun belum ditentukan destinasi berikutnya kemana. Kita terpaksa diskusi diluar tempat ramen karena udah kelamaan nongkrong disana HAHAHA.

Alhasil kita diskusi di depan kokumi, dan hampir berujung pergi ke Bandung pakai mobil Jaka (please note itu udah hampir jam 10 malem :) yes we are young, dumb, and crazy,....... and happy HAHAHAH) but fortunately, mobil Jaka gabisa dipake (yang aku lupa alasannya apa), oke akhirnya kita pilih Karokean. 

Tapi sebelum keluar PI.....

"Mas, tolong dong fotoin, jarang jarang ini kita ketemu", ujarku sama mas mas yang ketemu dijalan buat minta tolong ngefotoin.

Sekarang, waktu ngetik ini, aku baru sadar, kebohonganku sama mas mas itu jadi kenyataan :(. Gimana ga boong? Bilang jarang ketemu padahal seminggu sebelumnya baru aja ketemu HAHAHAHA, dan bener aja, minggu depannya udah lock down karena korone :( 

pelajarannya: please be careful about you are saying ya gy :)

Foto by mas nya yang aku boongin :)

Anyway, i would like to insert the picture below, karena kapan lagi aku bakal foto di stasiun MRT kalo ga gara gara mereka kan :))
 

That night was ended by karokean di karoke nya Arri lassso, and that place was the best karaoke di jakarta di bandingin frenchise frenchise karoke lainnya (so far), karena, lagunya update dan mic nya auto tune HAHAHAHAHA
                                        

Dear world, get well very soon, so i could join another (countless) meet up.
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For me, who absolutely, treasure outdoor strolling moment, staying at home, at some points, is suffocating.

What i miss the most are taking a very deep breath under the greenies, and hunting pictures.
Theses 2 places were the last places i came to (intentionally) hunt some pictures. 

Lapangan Banteng
All white architectures are always captivating. There were not so many people there, as u might see that the sunlight was enough to make us tanned. Nevertheless, it will little bit different if u see the park near the statue (at the same territory, too), there were peoples who do some sports or just hang around with other people.

Currently, in love with this tone, little bit gloomy though


This picture need 100000xxxxx trials

The park was really nice. The benches were in good condition, and the tap water is on (even though) some people still thought that it was a sink T.T. I guess it will be more helpful, if there are signs near the tap water itself.

I did not go the toilet since when i got there it was still on the regular cleaning, so i assume it is also in good condition, in terms of well maintained.

GBK
Who doesnt love GBK? Of course, everybody loves it, with the own preferential activities. And for me, is to hunt the pictures (or go to a concert/festival).





Hunting pictures is one of the best outdoor activities to burn the calories (i hope hahahaha), since we would unconsciously walk some kilos to enjoy the view and find the good stuffs. That is why i love this.

I love these greenies


All white architecture is a must.




Actually this time, i was not really into the frames, even i did not ask Byan to take picture of mine (not even once). But, i guess this -in-the-secret-taking-picture was not bad.

 

I hope everything will be better soon, so i could go to some other places.
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