Something that i hate the most of being SF (Sensing Feeling) at the same time is the fact that i will always put the thought of making the other people comfy and happy at first instead of make decision based on the priority.
Based on personalitypage.com, ESFJ:
As an ESFJ, your primary mode of living is focused externally, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit in with your personal value system. Your secondary mode is internal, where you take things in via your five senses in a literal, concrete fashion.ESFJs are people persons - they love people. They are warmly interested in others. They use their Sensing and Judging characteristics to gather specific, detailed information about others, and turn this information into supportive judgments. They want to like people, and have a special skill at bringing out the best in others. They are extremely good at reading others, and understanding their point of view. The ESFJ's strong desire to be liked and for everything to be pleasant makes them highly supportive of others. People like to be around ESFJs, because the ESFJ has a special gift of invariably making people feel good about themselves.
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| 16personalities.com |
Everything said in this page is literally true, and probably also what ESFJ persons really feel.
Even, when i am in a strong position to accuse people, I will end up by finding the best words to tell them how is the problem, in order to not hurt their feeling. But to get rid my annoyance, i will tell my close friends about my vexation at those people and usually my friends will tell me what i should do (commonly they complain that i have to be more heartless), but at the end i just feel too harsh if i do what my friend told me, and keep mumbling, and face the problems by myself :((( And i feel die little by little if keep doing this
Even, when i am in a strong position to accuse people, I will end up by finding the best words to tell them how is the problem, in order to not hurt their feeling. But to get rid my annoyance, i will tell my close friends about my vexation at those people and usually my friends will tell me what i should do (commonly they complain that i have to be more heartless), but at the end i just feel too harsh if i do what my friend told me, and keep mumbling, and face the problems by myself :((( And i feel die little by little if keep doing this
And thats the weakness of ESFJ person, but there is one strength from ESPJ person and i really proud of it. Somehow, ESFJ person will always try to treat other people like how we want the other people treat us. I (try to) dont care if people treat me bad, -maybe it will sound that i am exaggerating-, i hope that i can always endure it, karena hal baik akan dibalas baik pula
Note. If one day u meet ESFJ person, then dont abuse them.
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